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先夫  駱思遷先生( Mr. Raymond Lo) ,江蘇省阜寧縣人,與癌症奮戰近四年後,在他摯愛的子女孫輩隨侍下,於六 月二十二 日在喬治亞州亞特蘭大離開人世,享年六十八歲。

思 遷一生樂觀開朗, 熱愛生命, 對至親愛顧,對朋友誠懇,對事業、對社區公益都有積極的人生態度 ,生活簡單自然,灑脫不羈。生前即再三囑咐辦理後事一切 從簡,不驚動長輩親友,並謝辭花籃奠儀。現已謹遵遺願在家人含悲親視下火化,將另擇日移葬加州洛杉磯玫瑰崗墓園與已故親友長相依伴。

思遷臥病期間,因遵醫囑未便會客,承長輩朋友熱忱關懷問候,嘉音謹率子女在此致上無限的感謝。

兒女們為紀念他們親愛的父親,同時為免於長輩親友盛暑奔波慰唁,已將其生平製作紀念網站以方便親友追思懷念。謹此敬告關心的長輩親友,恕不再另訃。

嘉音敬上

My husband, Raymond Lo, was born in the Funing county of Jiangsu province.

After fighting lung cancer for over 3 years, on June 22, 2012, he passed away at the age of 68 in Atlanta surrounded by his loving children and grandchildren. His ashes will be laid to rest at Rose Hill Memorial Park near Los Angeles, CA,  among his friends and family.

Raymond – forever optimistic, cheerful, and passionate for life.
He loved and looked after his friends and family with the greatest sincerity.
He was dedicated with positive attitude towards both career and community.
His life was simple and natural. Carefree and uninhibited.

We created this website as a way to commemorate all of the countless ways in which Ray touched each of our lives. We are deeply grateful for everyone’s kind thoughts and encourage you to share your memories and in cherishing and reflecting on Ray’s full life.

今天

四爷爷,今天我去种了一颗牙。是一种比较新的手术,在我的牙根上打一个有螺纹的钉子,等半年之后,在钉子上面套一颗牙齿。几个月前,拔牙什么一系列的波折之后,我特别的紧张今天的手术。妈妈陪我过去,一会儿护士就过来叫我进手术室了。我还是第一次体验了一下无菌手术环境,好害怕。抽了两试管的血之后就套上了我的头发,用一种黄色的消毒液涂了我从鼻子到下巴的面积之后帮我戴上了眼罩,一块巨大的深绿色的布中间有一个圆形镂空。第一次,我觉得如此的陌生,不安全的感觉蔓延着。我觉得自己像是一个任人宰杀的羊羔,电钻榔头金属碰撞的声音充斥着,到后来我喉咙全是血都不能呼吸。我感觉自己非常害怕无助的时候,脑海里浮现了青山绿水,很像几年前和八爷爷一起爬的黄山,还有妈妈,外公外婆和你。很模糊,却很温暖。手术结束之后挂水,玲玲的血管好小,左右各打了一次没有打到位置,最后在手腕那里挂的水,我没有喊疼,还鼓励着那位护士。怎么样?很勇敢吧。
很想念你,很怀念你还在世的日子,很怀念和你发着短信讲着笑话的时光。你还记得吗,那个时候拍照你总是笑着叫我来你身边,那个时候我真的好小啊。现在都快要21岁了,快要到法定美国可以喝酒的时候啦。到时候,有机会一定去你墓碑上陪你喝一杯。爱你的玲玲。

Its another year of my everlast missing of you

Dear Raymond:

You have gone for three years by now, but, time has not lessened a bit of how much I miss you, instead, it has even strengened over the time. In a way, I envy your rest in peace while I am still struggling here down the earth. Regardless how tough it is, I know that you will be by my side, which gives me strength to fight on still.

Miss you as always,

Gus

一年後, One Year Later

IMG_0496去年六月四日下午在醫生診所得知你最後的病情, 知道治療無望時,你仍一如往常很鎮定的詢問醫生你還有多少日子….. 回家後也很平靜的告訴我 “對不起,我要先走了,我走後你們一定會傷心難過,但傷心一陣子後,日子還是要往前看、往前好好過……” 聽你這麼說,我傷心欲絕,說不出一句話,就怕一開口痛哭失聲,造成你的難過…..

一年了, 我努力試着、照著你的吩咐去過日子,但知易行難啊 !
前陣子找到一位國畫老師。重拾毛筆,借著畫畫寫毛筆字,平靜心情,解愁。現在給你送上一幅兩天前畫的 “四君子”,你看還行嗎?

Eating Mangos and Thinking of My Uncle

I cannot believe it has been a year since Uncle Raymond’s passing. This website has shown me how the love and influence of one person’s brief life can be so wide and deep, touching so many lives. As Raymond’s niece, I am fortunate to have known him my entire life. He is my “Yi-Fu.”

Everyone was drawn by my Yi-Fu’s fun and charismatic personality. His eyes and expressions lit up the room, and when people listened to him they quickly appreciated how smart and funny he was. I picture him sitting casually at the kitchen table, his hair perfect, with his sleeves rolled up … talking animately, and making all of us laugh, think, and try something new. We could count on Yi-Fu to entertain and educate us because he knew something about just about everything. He was passionately interested in just about everything. He also thought deeply about what matters in life, and lived that out those values in how he treated others.

I spent enough time at the Lo house growing up to pick up a few things from my Yi-Fu. For example:
– Best way to eat a mango: Slice it crisscross with the peel still on.
– Best technique for backing up the car: Put one hand on the steering wheel, other hand on the passenger seat.
– Best way to cha-cha: have a good dance partner!
– See the best in people; you can always learn something from them.
– Be generous with your time and money.
The list goes on… I am glad that many of these things have stuck with me, because in a way, I feel like his influence is living on through some of my present actions. When I am eating a juicy mango or putting my car in reverse, I often think of him and feel that he is near. Thank you for everything you have passed on to us, Yi-Fu. We love and miss you dearly.

One year

Raymond,
Time flies, It is one year.
I looked the photo we had together over Italy. Such a great fun time togethered.
Your wife and your kids are doing great. Please use your power to protect them up from there.

My Greetings

Dear granduncle,
Here lingling want to share a good news with you. I have already been admitted to Arizona State University’s 2013 fall semester. I feel very excited that I am going to be a freshmen.
Chinese new year is coming soon. How is everything going on at your place? I wish you all good and happy.
Miss you a lot,
Lingling